Lingam massage is a technique aimed at stimulating the male genitals to relax, improve blood circulation and increase sexual energy. It is believed that with this massage a man can achieve multiple orgasms.

Lingam massage is a practice aimed at influencing the male genitals to improve their health, stimulation and relaxation. The word "lingam" itself is translated from Sanskrit as "rod of light", which is a metaphor, but in a simpler context it refers to the penis.

Lingam massage is essentially not quite ordinary masturbation. The girl (or the owner of the penis) touches the penis with her palm or only with her fingers, strokes it, squeezes it, rubs it. The goal is to almost bring the man to orgasm, but slow down at the last moment and not allow him to ejaculate. To enhance the sensations, it is recommended to caress not only the penis, but also the perineum, testicles and even the male G-spot - the prostate.

Lingam massage is important in the context of tantric practices, according to which it is useful for both men and women. It is believed that this technique helps to strengthen the connection between partners, deepens sexual pleasure and helps to develop intimate energy. Regular massage practice can improve the physical and emotional state, as well as contribute to more vivid sensations and multiple orgasms.

What a man gets

The main thing that a man gets from a massage is pleasure. His main task during the procedure is to relax and fully enjoy the process. It is assumed that if a man completely immerses himself in his sensations, then the procedure will turn into waves of multiple orgasms rolling one after another. And the final one, when ejaculation does occur, will be more intense and longer than during normal sexual intercourse. In addition, lingam massage will teach you to feel your own body better, manage sexual desires, and control ejaculation. That is, with proper practice, multiple orgasms can be achieved during regular sex.

What a woman gets

From a tantric point of view, when a girl gives a man pleasure by massaging his "rod of light", she herself is filled with "light" - sexual energy. That is, thanks to the massage, the girl gets to know the penis more closely. The penis ceases to be something shameful and forbidden for her, and men's reactions to touching the main erogenous zone become more understandable.

What science says about all this

From a scientific point of view, evidence-based medicine does not yet have specific studies confirming the effect of lingam massage on the possibility of multiple orgasms or improved control over ejaculation. However, massage as a method of improving blood circulation in the genitals and diversifying sexual practice does not contradict scientific approaches. In addition, stimulation of the testicles and prostate can help improve erection, make it more stable and prolong sexual intercourse.

How to do a lingam massage

Tantric sex, including lingam massage, is a meditative process that requires attentiveness and unhurriedness. It does not tolerate haste or improvisation. Such a practice must be approached with preparation and follow important rules in order to get the maximum benefit and harmony from the process.

1. Create an atmosphere

Create an atmosphere of comfort: dim the lights so that the lighting is soft and pleasant. Turn on calm, relaxing music, and for an additional effect, you can light aromatic candles. Also, prepare the space in advance: spread a soft blanket on the floor, place pillows around the room, and cover the bed with soft silk sheets to create a comfortable environment.

2. Prepare massage oil

It is ideal if both partners like the aroma of the oil. It will fix tantric sex in memory. If you want to use solid oil, make sure that it melts easily in your hands.

3. Pay attention to breathing

It is very important to synchronize your breathing with your partner's breathing. Try to breathe slowly and measuredly, feeling how energy fills you with each inhalation and how pleasant it is to release it with each exhalation. This breathing rhythm not only promotes relaxation, but also turns the massage into a kind of meditative practice, strengthening the intimate connection between the partners.

4. Start the massage from afar

Rub and warm the oil in your hands. Start the massage from the thighs, stomach, chest (including nipples). Move your hands slowly and softly. This will allow the man to relax and tune in to the wave of future pleasures.

5. Caress the areas around the penis

Without touching the "rod of light" itself, gently and tenderly massage the perineum and scrotum.

6. Move from the bottom up

You should only move on to massaging the lingam itself after you notice that the penis is hardening. Grasp it with the fingers of one or both hands (the massage leaves room for self-activity) and slowly move upward, gently kneading, caressing every millimeter of the shaft of the penis. When you reach the most sensitive head, open your fingers and start moving from the bottom up again.

7. Do not allow your partner to ejaculate right now

If you notice that he is ready, remove your hands for a few seconds or slow down the speed of movement. Ejaculation is a pleasure for the final massage.

8. Don't forget about prostate massage

For this, you will need a water-based lubricant. Apply it to the tip of your finger and insert it into the anus to a depth of about 5 cm. The prostate is located closer to the pubis. To the touch, this gland resembles a rounded bulge the size of a walnut. Massage it with your finger carefully and gently and be ready to stop the process if the man becomes uncomfortable.

9. Allow the man to ejaculate

How long the massage will last depends only on both of you: your mood and desires. Ideally, it should take at least half an hour. At the end, speed up the movements a little to bring the man to orgasm and ejaculation. Continue to gently massage the penis even when sperm splashes out of it.